I realize that just because your Soldier leaves, that does not automatically give you oodles of free time. In fact, it usually diminishes your usual amount of free time. Personally, in addition to the lowered levels of “me, me, me”, I experience an extra helping of guilt. I am supportive of my Soldier and the work he does, but I am not out there doing good deeds myself. In an effort to battle this feeling I usually begin volunteering. Please do not misunderstand me, I am not the first one to sign up for a bake sale or chili feed. FRG fundraisers are often a trying event that I find hard to stomach. I enjoy volunteering directly for single Soldiers and their families (I am a point of contact for 70+ families in the squadron). However, I feel that sometimes that is not enough. Could I make a difference in this community, and promote a healthy image of the spouse of a deployed Soldier? The Fairbanks community is the best military community I have lived in. In general, the only anti-(war, Army, Bush, etc) people I have found usually hang out on the corner of University and Geist Road (protester-central). This year I wanted to give back to the community that has given to us for the past five years. I want to get my children involved, and I want to set a good example as a mother, and as a spouse who feels that she is part of this town. After several brainstorming sessions, I found a few good ideas.
First up on my list of good things to do, cut my hair! This may not directly affect the community, but by donating my hair (and enlisting the donations of four others) to Locks of Love, I can give something back. Literally. Tomorrow morning my girlfriend, JB, will join me in getting our locks lopped off. In an effort to thank her, I invited her over for a photo session last night to capture her beautiful mane. I am pleased with the results, but then again I am a biased photographer. I will also be posting an “after” shot.
Before
Next month I will be volunteering with the Fraternal Order of Alaska State Troopers (FOAST) here in Fairbanks at their annual charity concert featuring Gary Puckett and Juice Newton! What a great way to support the community and our local heroes who keep our streets safe!
Do you want to volunteer? Look for branches of these organizations in your community. If you are not sure where to start here in Fairbanks, contact these great people:
LOCAL
Fairbanks North Star Borough – fill out this application and apply to the department of your choice. A list is provided on the application.
Contact any school within the district directly for volunteer opportunities.
Fairbanks Animal Shelter @ 907-459-1451. Requirements? Must be 16 years of age, and take their Volunteer Orientation course. The next course date is October 22, 2008 from 6pm-9pm.
Fort Wainwright Stray Facility @ 907-361-3013
Women in Crisis-Counseling & Assistance @ 907-452-6770
Fairbanks Rescue Mission @ 907-452-5343
Tanana Chiefs Conference @ 907-452-82541
NATIONAL
Families United – United for a Strong America
Volunteers of America
USA Freedom Corps
The Nature Conservancy
Blue Star Mothers of America, Inc
American Red Cross
There are many opportunities out there to give. If you want to do something for someone else during this deployment take the steps now to show you care.
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